Everyone has moments when they feel anxious or even neurotic. This is especially true when it comes to romantic relationships.
No matter how confident we are, we all have certain fears within us that sometimes come to the surface when it comes to love.
Some of the things that get in our way in a relationship are certainly looks and trust. But there are certainly many other things.
We have all asked ourselves whether we are good enough or beautiful enough for our partner. Behind the protective shield of self-confidence there are always weaknesses and insecurities because, after all, we are all just human.
Of course, for each zodiac sign there is a specific type of fear that can arise in any form of relationship or love.
What is the zodiac sign’s biggest fear in love?
Find out what each zodiac sign fears in a romantic relationship.
1. Aries (March 21 – April 19)
No matter how strong and confident Aries is, he will spend a lot of time fearing that every wrong move he makes will be discovered.
He is afraid that his mistakes will be noticed and he will be criticized for them.
Since he is a rather nervous character, he often tries to get away with bad behavior without consequences.
If he finds out about this, it can cause a bigger conflict as he doesn’t want to be exposed.
2. Taurus (April 20 – May 20)
With a Taurus, his greatest virtue is also the source of his fear.
A Taurus is someone who loves with all their heart and wants to completely surrender to true love.
However, this kind of intense love often comes with great vulnerability, and Taurus knows that.
Although he knows that surrendering to love can give him the most beautiful experience of his life, he is very afraid to do it.
He fears being vulnerable with another human being and is always wary when it comes to falling in love.
Taurus is someone who takes past experiences very seriously.
So if he’s had a lot of bad experiences, chances are his fear of love and intimacy will only get worse over time.
3. Gemini (May 21 – June 20)
Gemini is most afraid of making decisions.
When they find themselves in a situation where they have to make a difficult decision, they are more likely to put it off for as long as possible.
They even believe that if they claim that they do not have to play this role and that the difficult question does not exist, it will magically resolve itself.
Gemini loves progress, but they are the type of people who would rather accept someone’s plan than play the main role in the decision-making process.
4. Cancer (June 21 – July 22)
Cancer-born people are always afraid of a lack of security, be it in love or in life in general.
They are so focused on security that it often goes in the wrong direction.
With the power of their minds focused on fear, they attract uncertain circumstances to themselves.
They unconsciously create stressful situations that they then have to deal with unnecessarily.
In addition, they are always too worried about the end of certain things and events, so they are rarely able to fully relax and enjoy something.
These natives are very greedy people by nature who want to be loved and cared for.
5. Leo (July 23 – August 22)
Leo-born people are very afraid of not being recognized as special.
The thought that they might be forgotten or that no one will pay attention to them anymore because they are irrelevant is very difficult for them to bear.
Mediocrity is not an option for Leo.
This feeling is like a curse for him.
Because of this fear, he can often act childishly.
If you witness situations in which these people exaggerate, then it is certain that they had a neurotic moment in which they felt forgotten.
In short: the lion wants to be the hero in every situation.
Being the center of attention is everything to him!
6. Virgo (August 23 – September 22)
Virgo-born people can be very strict with themselves.
Therefore, it is not surprising that their biggest fear is disappointing themselves.
In fact, they are people who always strive for perfection.
However, this characteristic is less responsible for their fears than certain unpleasant experiences in the past.
A loss that has already hurt these locals can be completely overwhelming.
Unfortunately, the problems of the past are something they never fully let go of.
By projecting this pain into their head in the form of all sorts of scenarios, they eventually become real.
Fearful of destroying everything they love, they often end up destroying it themselves.
7. Libra (September 23rd – October 22nd)
Libra-born people like to have everything under control, so their biggest fear is losing their partner.
What characterizes Libras is that they are naturally very friendly and empathetic.
Essentially, this is one of their virtues, but it is precisely because of these qualities that they can sometimes give up their own freedom for others.
They don’t show it, so people often don’t know what these locals sacrifice for them.
This can often be stressful and they give up too much in relationships.
Libras put everyone else and their desires before themselves, so they often end up wondering whether the life they are leading is their own or someone else’s.
8. Scorpio (October 23 to November 21)
What Scorpio fears most is standstill and stagnation.
He likes to be independent and take things into his own hands.
Scorpio is used to creating the circumstances he desires for himself.
He will always fight for his rights and do whatever it takes to create the life he wants.
In situations where Scorpio wants to change something, but it is not in his power, a problem arises.
When Scorpio is unable to change things that don’t suit him, he slowly becomes dissatisfied and nervous.
9. Sagittarius (November 22 – December 21)
Being seen as average and ordinary is something Sagittarius fears most.
For him, adapting to the environment is out of the question.
Those born under this sign want the best for themselves and have very high expectations of themselves as individuals.
They would never accept that they are not special, but always see themselves as unique and individual, both in their thinking and in their actions.
Any situation where these natives are treated like any other human being, they withdraw.
In this respect they are quite demanding.
They want to be recognized as unique people who are different from others.
This also affects their love relationships.
They are very afraid that their partner will consider them ordinary, and if they realize this, they will certainly try to prove to him that they are wrong.
10. Capricorn (December 22 – January 19)
Capricorns are most afraid of being silenced and not being allowed to speak.
Otherwise, they are people who often stand up and fight for those who are weaker than them.
By nature, this native is someone who will stand up and say what he thinks no matter what and he is never afraid to speak his mind.
He cannot stand it when he is not listened to or even silenced.
In such situations, he will try to speak even louder and draw all the attention to himself so that everyone can hear him.
This fear also affects a romantic relationship.
If the partner does not respect his opinion, and constantly interrupts and silences him, a major conflict can develop.
This is not an environment that Capricorns feel comfortable in and problems can arise very quickly.
Capricorn is simply afraid of not being heard.
11. Aquarius (January 20 – February 18)
Taking away an Aquarius’ right to choose is the worst thing you can do.
Aquarius is known to like having their own freedom, and that includes choosing what is right.
Sometimes it takes him a long time to make a decision, but this is usually because he wants to reassure himself that the decision he has made belongs only to him.
He wants to demonstrate his own sense of individuality.
He doesn’t allow anyone else to make a decision for him because that would give the impression that some of his freedom is being taken away from him.
You can’t say he doesn’t take advice because he listens to what others have to say.
However, he always wants to be 100% sure that the decision he has made is entirely his own and not based on the opinions and advice of others.
12. Pisces (February 19th – March 20th)
Pisces have a strong fear of rejection.
I would say that we all feel the fear of rejection somewhere, both because of our human nature and because of bad experiences in the past.
However, fish here can be much more dramatic.
They even make some art out of it.
In fact, Pisces can be overly dramatic and cry.
They are also known to enjoy playing the victim role, so their fear of rejection can often be exaggerated.
If they feel that they are not truly accepted somewhere, they are very likely to withdraw from such an environment.
Whatever your fear in love may be, know that it’s normal to enter a new relationship with certain fears.
Nobody is perfect and everyone carries their problems with them all the time. What you can do about it is to recognize and accept them in good time.
When we accept our fears, we have the chance to first understand them and then ultimately fight them.
But remember: fear is exactly the opposite of love. Always remember how you can change your fear with love, and you will take a big step towards healing.